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Breaking and Healing -3 DISC CD
(Breaking and Healing is for everyone, because everyone has relationship issues - it's just whether or not we face them.) 
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If you feel badly in your relationship most of the time but rationalize and tell yourself "A lot of couples have it worse than we do", you are in a dysfunctional relationship. Whether you are struggling with a partner, a parent, a child, a friend, a co-worker, a boss, an ex - We all have relationships that don't work. This does not mean that there is something wrong with us, but rather that we are human; and part of this human experience is to figure out how to have healthy relationships - equitable interactions that give us self- respect and self-esteem. Breaking and Healing is for everyone, because everyone has relationship issues - it's just whether or not we face them. When you don't face your issues, you feel worse and worse as each day goes by. Learn how to stop this forward momentum and immediately start feeling better.  Buy Now


TRASHtionalizations
(How to Stop Believing Your Own Excuses and Have a Real Relationship)  

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TRASHtionalizations (How to Stop Believing Your Own Excuses and Have a Real Relationship) is like having a therapist in your purse. Open to any page and you will be snapped back to reality. By giving women the courage to love themselves first, this pocket handbook reminds us once again what we already know: Every man knows what to do - it's just whether or not he thinks he needs to do it with you. By delivering a one-two punch, TRASHtionalizations wakes you up - you learn how to take care of yourself AND stay open to love. Women will buy this book for one another and men will secretly buy it for themselves. A woman's book every man should read!
Are you TRASHtionalizing? (Making excuses for what doesn't feel good)

...Sex is not important. We have other things going for us.
...Being with someone is better than being alone.
...I'll move out as soon as I have enough money.


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The Real Deal, How to Be it, How to Get It  -3 DISC CD    Buy Now

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is an opportunity to uncover the misconceptions and rationalizations; a way to take back your power and know that you can create the life you want. Love is not something that happens to us – we make it happen! Only when you are “intimate” with yourself can you share that intimacy with another. If you want passion, you must be passion; if you want love, you must be love.

Sit back, listen and open. Understand it differently, change what doesn’t work, and get answers that point you in a new direction. Remember love is an introspective process and unless you are willing to journey inward, you can never connect to the core of who you really are. Being real is only way to have real relationships.


A Working Relationship with the Mind -CD     Buy Now

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This insightful and riveting talk debunks commonly held beliefs that keep us stuck both personally and professionally and teaches us new ways to look at the same old stuff. Called "Tampa Bay's own Dr. Phil", Chandra shares with corporate event planners the same no nonsense reality she delivers on NBC's DAYTIME "Reality Check".
Integrating a strong business sense with spirituality and self-actualization, she reveals how having a good working relationship with your mind is the foundation of all good business and all good relationships - the one you have with your co-worker, the one you have with your boss, the one you have with your partner, and most importantly, the one you have with yourself. Listening to Chandra speak, you will have moments of enlightenment and feel empowered.


Reality Works, (Let It Happen)      Buy Now

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is for the savvy seeker, neophyte, and all those in-between. Chapter titles such as It is our fear that creates our bravery, The universe works if you get out of the way, and Being human is the key to knowing your divinity, all propose new ways to look at the same old stuff, with a twist. Spiritual myths are “de-bunked” as complicated concepts are stripped to the bare essentials with clarity, freshness and reverence. Fifty-two chapters in all…brief and explicit lessons on living truthfully with a grounded sense of wonder.

Reality Works is for readers who want their spirituality straight-up, without the anecodotes and endless explanations. Combining eastern wisdom with a hip, contemporary, very American point of view, it makes readers laugh out loud, see life with a fresh perspective, sit in the middle of the floor and welcome their demons-basically learn how to feel a range of feelings by first facing the monster of fear and loneliness.

"We have been so conditioned to want only what is easy and initially makes us feel good that we have neglected the soft underbelly, that part of life that is difficult and makes us uncomfortable, but in the end has the ability to connect us to what is real," writes Alexander in the Introduction.

Fifty-two chapters (one for every week in the year) provide brief but explicit lessons on how to live with a grounding sense of wonder. Chapters include "When You Are Confused, Do Nothing," "Love Grows if You're not in a Coma," "I am not Afraid of Things That Scare Me," and "Men and Women are Different-Enjoy it." From loneliness to relationships, from learning to leave things alone to learning to pay attention, Reality Works offers fifty-two ways to live a richer, more authentic life. A gem of a book that can be picked up again and again, each time meeting the reader in exactly the right place.

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Author Comments

“I have read spiritual / philosophical books voraciously for thirty years and still have not found that little gem that can be picked up again and again, each time meeting the reader in exactly the right place. In all my years of reading, if I walked away with one new way of looking at destiny, energy or free will, I felt it was worth the price of the book. I wrote this book because it was something I was always looking for and could never find.”
   

 

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This daily email is an opportunity to stay connected to what's real and true. Cutting through to "The Real Truth" is my way of sharing with you an inner barometer to test the "realness" of where you are at any moment. Having a good life is not for the weak at heart. A cold eye is what's needed to plunge our inner depths and for that we must be brave. Regardless of our dysfunction, our ego must be healthy and strong enough so that we can we be brutally honest with ourselves. Real bravery is accepting that the inner journey will include "uncomfortableness" and anxiety; that there is no way to face our demons without the willingness to meet them. There will always be emotional pain when we finally feel our grief and sadness, and get in touch with a lifetime of "stuffed feelings", but once we stop resisting what has always been there, we experience freedom, and finally know that suffering is optional. Here's to living in the present moment - not the past or the future - Chandra

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